Delay Your Orgasm!

You can stop your premature ejaculation easily and quickly. 

What do you think is the average time between penetration and ejaculation?  If you're a man who doesn't last long in bed, and you're very unhappy with your lovemaking skills, you may think fifteen minutes or even longer is normal. However, since you're not likely to know the answer to this question, here it is:

Men who see themselves as premature ejaculators last on average 2 minutes 32 seconds from penetration to ejaculation.

Men who do not think of themselves as premature ejaculators last on average 3 minutes 1 second. (University of Koln study.)

This is a pretty amazing state of affairs. What it means is that the vast majority of men - whether they see themselves as skillful lovers or not - come (or "cum") very shortly after they have inserted their penis into their lover's vagina. And this hasn't improved much in recent years: in 1958, one study in the United States discovered that three men in every four ejaculated within three minutes of penile insertion. Men, it seems, are not doing much to enhance the pleasure of their lovers! But if things haven't changed in 46 years, does it really matter?

I guess that depends on how you feel about sex. We men are very driven to achieve orgasm and ejaculation, and our sexual desire may well be satisfied by a quick bout of sex. Indeed, most men would say there are very few things as satisfying as making love with their partner, feeling the warmth and luscious wetness of her vagina around their penis, and ejaculating inside her. But how much do men think of their partner's needs when this is what sex amounts to?

The answer seems to be: it depends on the couple concerned. For many couples, this situation is just normal. They've got used to doing it like this over months or years, and the habit sticks. She probably has an orgasm or two through masturbation or cunnilingus before he penetrates her; she then welcomes him into her body and - before they know it - Bang! he's exploded and things come to an abrupt and sticky end. But the couple are happy enough with this routine, and though the woman may wish her man lasted longer, they probably don't see themselves as having a premature ejaculation problem.

But other couples are not happy about it all. There are three main reasons why:

Sometimes a woman wants her man inside her for longer simply because she enjoys the feelings of being penetrated and having his penis inside her so much.

In other cases - probably where she hasn't much opportunity for orgasm by manual play or oral sex during the lovemaking session - she thinks she would come if only her man could thrust for longer.

Lastly, the man might think he can make his partner come if only he could thrust for long enough, so he sees himself as a failure as a lover and feels bad about himself.

But whatever the reason you're unhappy about how your lovemaking is working out, you can do something about it!

However, the difference between success and failure in bed is down to one thing: your desire to be a better lover.

So - ask yourself three questions:

Do you want to stop your premature ejaculation? 

Do you desire to become a man who can make love for as long as he chooses? 

Do you want to be able to satisfy any woman in bed?

If you do, please click here to find out how to stop your premature ejaculation.